Priceless Gem

Time passes really fast, me & dear suddenly realize that both of us are so tight up with our stuff lately, it had been so long since we have a heart to heart talk.

This few days I have a little spare time at work, so I will log in to MSN with my mobile. Been catching up quite a lot with dear on MSN, I miss his crappy jokes, he had never fail to make me laugh. Maybe because of lesser communication nowadays, I feel as if I had taken a short break in his life for the past couple of months back, I miss out so much thing that happen to him. I feel that I'm such a lousy girlfriend.

Dear told me that I should start blocking my weekdays for him, at least 2 days a week, we missed out too much time together. For the past couple of months, we hardly meet up on weekdays, we are just like "weekend's couple".

During this "weekend's couple" period of time, of cos there are gain & there are lost. I gain a lot of time for myself & spend lot of the time with my peepsz, at last I manage to find time & meet up with so many of them, I miss them all. Lost wise, I lost a lot of time with dear, missing out the interesting events that happened in his life. Well, there isn't such thing as a balance, having the best out of the both world.

Sadly, dear ask me to block my next Tuesday & Thursday to spend my time with him, but I already have appointment on, I shall make more time for him the following week than.

Dear told me a "theory" yesterday that he share with all his bachelor friends. He ask them why they always like to waste their time on oversea girlfriends that work in pubs, those girls with no decent jobs & spend money like water, all these girls are just liability to them.

He say, as a man, looking for a girl to spend their future with, shouldn't they find themselves an asset rather than liability? The liability would now stick to you during your good time & suck you dry. When you reach  the lowest point of your life, they will simply say bye bye to you & off they go.

Whereas asset is different, they are there to share your joy with you at the highest point of your life, remind you that even you have extra, don't forget to save for the raining days. During your down time, they are there to support you, go through all the shit with you.

So what holding you guys back outta? There lots of attractive seduction everywhere, but one cannot only see the short term . If you can't resisted the temptation around you, even you got the best priceless gem in the world, you will lose the gem one day. That particular gem deserves someone who knows how to treasure & appreciate them.