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Monday, November 24, 2008

当感情转淡时...

received a e-mail from my friend... find that this e-mail is rather meaningful...

wish to share with other.

当感情转淡时...all we need to do is to give in and take not to hold grudges, always spare a thought for your loved ones.

i believe, all things can be worked out.

他們結婚已有兩年了。
他愛好文學,經常寫文章放上網絡,可是從來沒有人去看。
他也會攝影,他們結婚的照片就是他自己拍的。
他很愛她。
她也是。

她脾氣很大,經常「欺負」他,是個「辛辣小霸王」。
他脾氣不大,經常讓她,是個「廿四孝老公」。
今天,她又「任性」了。
她﹕「你為什麼不肯替我朋友的婚禮當攝影師?她答應價錢照付。」
他﹕「那一天我剛好沒時間。」
她﹕「哼!」
他﹕「嗯?」
她﹕「什麼沒時間?你少寫幾篇鬼都不看的小說,不就行了。」
他﹕「我相信總有一天,會有人欣賞的。」
她﹕「哼!不管怎樣,你一定要替她拍婚禮照。」
他﹕「不行。」
她﹕「就只一次。」
他﹕「一次也不行。」
談判失敗了。於是,她下了最後通牒﹕
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三天之內,必須答應,否則--

第一天。
她「封鎖」了廚房、浴室、電腦、雪櫃、電視機、音嚮組合
只有雙人床沒被「封鎖」,以示「寬宏大量」。
當然,她自己也要睡。
他不在乎,因為他口袋還有點零錢。


第二天。
她施以突襲,搜去他口袋的一切,並警告﹕
[
瞻敢找「外援」的話,一切後果自負。」
他慌了。
晚上。
床上。
他求饒,希望她結束這種非常狀態。
她不睬他。決心不「軟」不能被他的花言巧語「迷惑」。
除非答應條件。


第三天。
晚上。
床上。
他靠在床上,頭朝東。
她靠在床上,頭朝南。
他﹕「我們好好談談。」
她﹕「不答應條件,不談。」
他﹕「我談的很重要。」
她不吭聲。
他﹕「我們離婚吧。」
頭皮一炸,摸摸耳朵。
他﹕「我認識一個女孩。」
她氣極了,想爬起來與他打一場。
但她又忍住了,要讓他把話說完,
不能沒有「度量」,不過,她覺得眼睛有 點濕了。
他從胸口摸出一張照片。
她猜出他是從貼身襯衫口袋掏出來的,
因為前天只有這件襯衫沒有
搜索過,是看走了眼。

他﹕「這個女孩很漂亮很溫柔」
她淚水出來了。
他﹕「而且性格也挺好。」
她很傷心,因為他把別的女孩子的照片放在「貼心」的口袋
他﹕「她說和我結婚後全力支持我寫作。」
她很嫉妒,因為當初她也對他說過這話。
他﹕「這個女孩是真心愛我的。」
她想爬起來朝他吼﹕「我不也是?」
他﹕「因此,我想她是不會逼我幹我不願意幹的事的。」
她在考慮,但她氣難消。
他﹕「你要看看我替她拍的照片嗎?」
她﹕「?
他把那張照片湊到她眼前。
她火氣很大,一掌打開他的手,
再在他瞼上留下鮮紅的五指印。
他嘆了口氣。
她出了口氣。
他把照片放回口袋。
她把手縮進被窩。

他把燈熄了,睡了。
她把燈開了,起來。

他睡著了。
她失眠了。
她後悔了,不該對他這樣。
她又哭了,想了很多。
她要把他喊醒,要和他親親熱熱地談談。
她絕不再逼他了。
她盯住他胸口。
她要看看那個女孩究竟是什麼樣子?
她摸出照片。

她又好氣又好笑,又想哭又想笑。
那是她自己的「標準照」。
是他替她拍的。

她俯下身來,在他的臉上親了一下。
他笑了。原來他也沒有睡著。

人與人相處 感情有時淡有時濃
只要 不要忘記最初的相識情境
感情才能長久

戀人、朋友皆是

~SuN~

Hope the "Qin Tian Wa Wa" will bring SUN

to the cloudy sky.

 

Friday, November 21, 2008

will there really be this kind of men??

Jus feeling kind of tired,

simply tired of everything.

Don't ask me why, cos i also dunno.

received a e-mail, jus feel it kind of meaningful,

but will there really be this kind of men??

Find a guy .. who calls you beautiful instead of hot.

who calls you back when you hang up on him.

who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who ... kisses
your forehead.

Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.

Who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he
is to have you.

Who turns to his friends and says, ' That's her!! '

what in a girl mind??

When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.

When a GIRL is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering how
long you will be around.

When a GIRL answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ... she is not at all
fine.


When a GIRL stares at you she is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL lays on your chest .. she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.
When a GIRL says ' I love you ' .. she means it.

When a GIRL says ' I miss you ' .... no one in this world can miss you more than that.

Life only comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person ....

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

FrIeNdS

FrIeNdS

are like

RaInBoW

MULTIPLY

YoUr JoY

&

 

DIVIDED

sOrRoW

Friday, November 14, 2008

TRUST???

Never expect my purely concern will make you feel uncomfortable and make you feel that i doubt you.

Worried and fear filled me when i never received any replies from you.

Mind run wild, wondering what had happen.

Trust is a "BIG" word.

I dunno how much you believe that i really FULLY have trust in you,

and I had NEVER doubt you.

Is up to you to believe me.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

ADVANCE HAPPY BIRTHDAY JUNJIA!!!

Since my buddy, Sharon, is too lazy to blog down the places that we went yesterday, i'll help her to do her unfinish job.

well well, firstly, our "LATE" queen, Sharon, taking her own sweet time made me waited so long. to my surpise (or mayb horror is a better words), the driver of the day is Alicia (can hardly see her sitting in the driver seat..Oppp)

Head to Mount Faber our 1st stop. planning to go "Jewel Box" for dinner, but after hearing the price, scare the hell out of us (who know we so heng go on the day on the lighting up of their "xmas" tree)

went to "White Dog Cafe" instead which me n Junjia highly recommanded. the loster soup is SUPERB!! jus a little disappointed as my steak is too bloody and i after the dinner, i know i will never ever try lamb chop.

went rounding at Mount Faber rounding, trying to find Henderson Wave. after 3 BIG round that we made, we give up!!

head to Kent Ridge park after that, nothing much there, after a smoke and we left the place.

bought drink and went to the road beside the airport runway so that we can see the plane and have a little chit chat.

but it really not our day, a police car came over and chase us away. kinda of disappointed, came all the way there den mus leave le.

went Changi Village to see the "pretty boy". as a female i really feel that "he" look much much prettier den anyone of us walking on the road.

there one..WOW!!! Alicia got so excited seeing them. "he" machiam like showing his whole boost to us!!! but i think it look fake!! YUCK!!

since our little girl, Alicia got so excited, bought her to East Coast Park Carpark A for a spin.. saw tos misty window and fully cover with newspaper. OMG!! Alicia n Sharon is like so noisy in the car, full of "feedback".

time to head home. Thanks Junjia for bringing out to rounding.

Hope u like the little present that me n Sharon chose for you.

I Miss You Guys Lot!! miss Sharon, miss Alicia and of cos miss our Birthday Boy Junjia too.. ADVANCE HAPPY BIRTHDAY JUNJIA!!!

 

Friday, November 7, 2008

spoil my day

TGIF!!!

but FUCKING BITCH from the HR department really spoil my day. came back from smoke break this morning and my boss want to speak to me:

Boss: Lynn ah, you just came back from smoke ah.

Me: hmmm, yap! what wrong?

Boss: you know i'm ok fthat you to go smoke during work, but *** came in to our department start gossiping again saying you, mavis and shana keep going to smoke together.

Me: i never always go smoke!

Boss: but u all always go in group lor, i understand that girls like to chit chat while smoking together, i'm totally fine with that but be smart la, take turn to go down, take turn to come up, dun appear in group lor.

Me: orh! i understand.

Boss: good that you understand, the HR people is marking on you guys le.

What the Fuck, so many people go smoke in group why only we kenna, just because our department is next to your? she machiam nothing to do the whole day, just go from department to department to gossip yet dare to say bad on other.

What is the BIG fuck if you are from HR.

My Anniversary

Yesterday, after work, head to dear's office to wait for him to complete his stuff. guess what i bought for him on our anniversary, 2 Levi jean and a top.

after dear complete his stuffs, we head to the car park to get the car. dear passed me his lappy ask me to put at the back seat of the car. after that i head back to him, he ask me,

"you act you never see anything or really never see?"

run back to the car and see what in the back seat. Woooo!! my present!! starting i really never see lor, cos the car park really very dark.

dear know that all those stuffs that he bought if i bring home my mum going to scream at me, so he even think of where should i put those stuff.

This mushroom is to put in the car for me to hug. so suprise dear allow me to put soft toy in his car, last time no matter what, he will say a "NO" to me.

This is to put in dear's house so that if i stay over, other then fur ball, there is this for me to hug

this is for me to hang on my handphone.

dear say no point getting me real flower cos always die. so this my flower for the day.

this bear come with the flower.

 

Went Mariners' Corner for our dinner, just love this place, full of memories. This is the restaurant that dear bought me to 2years back when we are first together.

never eat loster this time round, had steak and jumbo sauage.

Yummy!!!

after dinner head back to dear's house, tried the jean, luckily it fit.

went to Labrador Park for a stroll, missed the place, lot of memories!

Thanks dear for every little things you had done for me.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

HaPpY 2nD aNnIvErSaRy My HuBbY.

TiMeS fLiEs, JuSt In A bLiNk Of EyEs, 2YeArS hAd PaSsEd..

ThAnKs FoR tAkInG gOoD oF mE fOr ThE pAsT 2yEaRs, AcCePtInG mY uNrEaSoNaBle AnD uNpReDiCtAbLe MoOd SwInG..

tHaNkS fOr BeInG tHeRe WiTh Me To OvErCoMe AlL tHe HaRd TiMe WhIcH wE eNcOuNtEr ToGeThEr.

tHaNkS fOr BeInG tHeRe FoR mE wHeN i'M dOwN, cHeEr Me Up WhEn I'm SaD. 

HaPpY 2nD aNnIvErSaRy My HuBbY.

lOvE yOu MoRe EvErYdAy I sPeNt WiTh YoU!! hOpE tHe FoLlOwInG yEaR wIlL bE a BeTtEr YeAr FoR uS.

www.hotel626.com

For those people who loves HORROR Movie and HORROR stuffs. Try this out:

www.hotel626.com

It a ghosty and horror game. Is really kind of cool.

Firstly please register your stay in the hotel, hotel only open from 6pm to 6am. (if you are scare and wanna to play during the board day light, change the timing of your computer)

In every stage, hint will be given to you to escape from the hotel, follow the hint and you will find your way out. ("?" is found at the bottom left hand corner everytime is u cannot clear the stage. click on it to look at the hint again. if you really have a hard time to clear the stage, push on "skip" to carry on to the other stage.)

I had completed the game, time for you guys to try. The image is awesome, feel so real. Remember to turn off your room light, on your speaker real loud to have better feel of the game.

 

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Stupid Men Rules

Now here are the rules from the male side.

1. Men are NOT mind readers.

1. Learn to work the toilet seat.
You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down.
We need it up, you need it down.
You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

1. Sunday sports It's like the full moon
or the changing of the tides.
Let it be.

1. Shopping is NOT a sport.
And no, we are never going to think of it that way.

1. Crying is blackmail.

1. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!

1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

1. Come to us with a problemonly if you want help solving it.. That's what we do.
Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.


1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become Null and void after 7 Days.


1. If you think you're fat, you probably are.
Don't ask us.

1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one

1. You can either ask us to do something
Or tell us how you want it done.
Not both.
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials..

1. Christopher Columbus didNOT need directions and neither do we.

1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.

1... If it itches, it will be scratched.
We do that.

1. If we ask what is wrong and you say 'nothing,' We will act like nothing's wrong.
We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.

1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you don't want to hear.

1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine... Really .

1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as Rugby or golf.

1. You have enough clothes.

1. You have too many shoes.

1. I am in shape.Round IS a shape!

Monday, November 3, 2008

Just something meaningful to share

The words is abit small, guess if u all want to read, need to click on each picture to read up the words. but me myself think that u should read up on the words, it meaningful.

my weekend

time to update my past week happening stuff le. well, i was on leave last wed to get my teeth fix.. another 300+ was gone, but still not fix yet. another session more to go.

afr my dental appointment, took the train to somerset, went back to my school to get my cert. never expect afr they moderate the result i got quite well for all the score. total of 5 "A", 2 "B" and 1 "C", too bad the "C" spoil the look of the whole cert, finally graduate le.

 

last friday after work, went in to sentosa hav a department gathering at coasta sand. actually i really dun feel like gg but they make a must for everyone to turn up. jus went there to shoe face for awhile n make my move.

wait for dear to pick me up afr his lesson, went to katong to mit up the rest and head to cineleisure for movie watch saw 5, wasn't that up compare to the saw 4 but overall still not bad.

sat wake up at 6am, raining heavily, head out soaking wet and took a cab to harbourfront to meet up with e rest and head to farm mart. got a company event today, we volunteer to bring the kid from the problem family for a farm trail. went goat farm, veggie farm and fish farm.

whole event end at ard 2 plus, saw the family thanks jus for taking care of them i feel so happy at least they enjoy themselve, it really heart warming scene. dear came n pick me up. went hm to watch dvd again but i dozed off as i only slept for ard 2hrs e day before.

wake up, head to katong for dinner and went home to continue our dvd, jus a few more disc to go. watch till 5.30am... my eye onli half open by den.